Marriage
‘We are by nature a worried species’
Alain de Botton says that while it is natural to worry, the truth is that Homo sapiens are a resilient species that have been through extraordinary cycles of suffering and joy. He says one of the… Audio
Professor Stephanie Coontz: How to Make Your Marriage Gayer
Professor Stephanie Coontz recently wrote an opinion piece saying "many different-sex couples would have happier and more satisfying marriages if they took a few lessons from their same-sex… Audio
An optimistic partner is good for your health - new study
If you're in a long-term relationship, your partner's outlook can have a big impact on how long and how well you live, according to a new study by researchers at Michigan State University. It turns… Audio
Apartners: Living happily ever apart
Filmmaker Sharon Hyman has lived just down the road from the love of her life, David, for 20 years. The couple live happily apart as 'apartners'. Sharon's second film, Apartners: Living Happily Ever… Audio
Having a best friend is worth over $150,000 in extra income
We all know that people with good social interactions are happier with their lives, but what if you could put a monetary value on having a best friend? Well, that's exactly what research author and… Audio
Political commentators Hooton & Williams
A look at the immigration backdown over arranged marriages policy, the Zero Carbon Act and assisted dying legislation. Matthew Hooton is an Auckland based consultant and lobbyist and Mike Williams is… Audio
Why older people should be able to change their age
Should people who look and act younger than they are be legally allowed to change their age in order to avoid ageism and discrimination? Joona Räsänen is a bioethicist at the University of Oslo in… Audio
Mandy Len Catron: What you lose when you gain a spouse
Mandy Len Catron has written a thought-provoking piece in The Atlantic asking whether marriage actually creates a social handicap. She joins the show to discuss. Audio
BBC Witness
Back to the 1970's and a gay wedding in the United States which took place long before same sex marriage became legal in the USA. Claire Bowes of the BBC World Service history programme 'Witness'… Audio
Fewer people saying 'I do'
The marriage rate for New Zealand residents last year fell to its lowest since the peak in 1971, but the rate of divorces is also dropping.
BANG! Season 3 Episode 4: Pretty Poly
Ethical non monogamy is nothing new - but an increasing number of people are giving it a go. Research from the US reports that 4-5% of people identify as polyamorous, and 20% have tried a version of… Audio
BANG! Season 3 Episode 3: Let's Stay Together
We all know how it goes - two people meet, they fall in love, they decide to get married and live happily ever after. We've heard different versions of this story so many times, many of us never stop… Audio
Tips for a happy marriage
A 34 year-old Texan has offered up some tips for a happy relationship on a blog he shares with his wife. His post went viral, being loved and ridiculed by all and sundry. It received 40,000 retweets… Audio
The wedding economy: a love story
It's wedding season in New Zealand and dozens of couples are walking up the aisle - or planning to. Kim Savage is one of those planning her Big Day, so she took a look at the current state of the… Audio
Ada Calhoun: Marriage under the microscope
Ada Calhoun <https://www.adacalhoun.com/> is a New York-based writer whose latest book Wedding Toasts I'll Never Give, an essay collection about her own marriage, attempts to answer the questions: why… Audio
Stephanie Coontz: the Success Sequence
Stephanie Coontz is a professor of history and family studies at Evergreen State College in Washington. Coontz is an authority on changing families in the US and discusses the so-called success… Audio
Predatory marriage - could it happen here?
Could Daphne Fraser's situation happen in New Zealand? Jan McNamara from Mac and Co. Lawyers has the answer Audio
Harder for children to marry
Parliament has made it harder for minors to marry, unanimously passing a members bill to help prevent forced marriage. Audio
Harder for children to marry
Parliament has made it harder for minors to marry, unanimously passing a members bill to help prevent forced marriage.
AudioForced to stay married
A British woman has to remain married to her husband despite wanting a divorce, because he refuses to agree to the split. Under British law you can't divorce on the grounds of unhappiness. Audio